EXTREMIST ANTI-WOKEISM AT ITS WORST

Sometimes just shaking my head is not enough to carry on with my day and erase all recollection of a ludicrous, insulting act. Anti-Wokeism has become more zealous and outrageous than any current notion of Wokeism. If you want to see red, read this news item on The Advocate’s website. The rainbow crosswalk at the site of Orlando nightclub Pulse has gone black for the second time in a week. It’s now being guarded by Florida Department of Transportation employees. Apparently, the National Guard was unavailable.

 

Pulse, you will recall, is where a gunman murdered forty-nine clubgoers on June 12, 2016, most of them Latino and/or queer. 

 

This is clearly no ordinary rainbow crosswalk. Florida has been painting over other such crosswalks in places like Miami and Delray Beach, calling such installations a political act and a safety risk. (Safety risk? WTF?!) 

 

The Orlando crosswalk serves, in part, as a memorial. It was approved by the Florida Legislature and then-Republican governor Rick Scott. Current Republican governor Ron DeSantis even posed for a photo op at the site in 2019 before Anti-Wokeism became a Republican obsession. This is nothing short of a deplorable act in Florida’s ongoing Don’t Say Gay attempts to rewrite reality. 

 

The families of those that died at Pulse and the people who survived deserve better. The LGBTQ community deserves better. Florida deserves better. I hope residents continue to repaint the crosswalk in rainbow hues. To blacken the road again only takes a horrendous hate crime and covers all memory of it with more hate.

 

Outrageous.

 

 

 

  

SO WHAT IF HE WAS

In the New York Times today, there’s the headline: “In Hunt for Answers, F.B.I. Follows Claims That Orlando Gunman Was Gay”. The possibility first surfaced as a Pulse patron was interviewed by a CNN reporter. He’d seen the killer at the club before. Said hello. The interviewee’s partner had talked further with the future murderer.

Please, no, I thought. Don’t let someone so savage be one of us. If any good can come from this nightmare, it is that there will be more open discussion about acceptance of LGBT people and the harm that comes from continued anti-gay religious dogma and political rhetoric. The haters look for anything to deny culpability. I shudder to hear them shoot back with, “He was one of you.” They’re not saying it yet. Even the haters—at least those not affiliated with a certain heinous Kansas church—have the sense to shut up for a while. But they’ll twist and distort anew once the next scary bathroom ordinance comes up for a vote or another baker bemoans a message two grooms want scrawled on a cake.

One of us.

We’ve all heard for ages how he who doth protest too much may be fighting something internal. The fag haters may very well be gay. The thinking is that the vial they spew deflects any shadow of suspicion. It’s an interesting argument and, yes, I’m sure that on occasion it is true. But I doubt that is true of the majority of anti-gay men. And I cringe that gay men hold onto this belief. It smacks of self-hate—I know you are, but what am I.

Thus far, according to The Times, FBI investigators “have not found any independent corroboration—through his web searches, emails or other electronic data—to establish that he was, in fact, gay.” Whew.

But what if they do? How could a man so conflicted about his sexual orientation take out his wrath on a group he may have been raised to shun? How could gay men have become the enemy? Wouldn’t it make more sense to turn one’s back on intolerant religious views? It’s futile to ruefully wish for logic regarding a cold-blooded killer.

There’s also the possibility that he had faced rejection by gay men. Repeatedly. After the massacre, there was much talk of gay clubs as being a refuge, a spot where one can stop checking one’s mannerisms and a place for celebration, maybe even connection. Sure, on any given night, all that is possible, but let’s not get too fanciful. I can recall many a walk back to the car feeling overlooked or flat-out rejected. I loathed the go-go boys, gyrating on a podium in well-packaged thongs and taking away any chance I could establish eye contact with spellbound above-average Joes. The go-go boys were merely scapegoats with six packs. Sometimes it can feel devastatingly lonely in a gay bar. Could negative experiences, combined with an upbringing of gay intolerance, have triggered the killer to snap? Again, too often we try to search for rational factors to explain irrational acts. We’ve already spent more than enough time thinking about and for the killer.     

U.S. Attorney General Loretta Lynch is quoted as saying, “People often act out of more than one motivation.” To be sure, the killer espoused radicalized views of terrorists. He wanted maximum carnage. But Pulse nightclub was a conscious choice. Gay, Latino men were targeted.  Lynch went on to say what has been said over and over since the massacre: “This was clearly an act of terror and an act of hate.” Whether he was or wasn’t gay, a range of influences—familial, religious, cultural, social, political—contributed to the fact that he hated gays. At this point, who he was is immaterial. It’s the contributing factors that bear scrutiny. These are the areas that must continue to evolve. They require our continued focus. Any further focus on the killer is a fruitless distraction.